Everyone is normal until you get to know them. I repeat this phrase a lot. I also like to think in terms of everyone has "a closet". You know, the one that you hope guests never open. If they do, stuff, often unmentionables or embarrassing purchases will come tumbling down. I have 3 kids, a job, a husband and a desire to run a smooth, happy house. Some might even say, "perfect". I can't be perfect, no one is. but I can strive to be outwardly normal. This is my journey in life.